Live Vedanta: Parenting Culture
Challenges: Education Expectations
Episode Summary
Hari Om Dear Parenting Culture CommUnity! We hope you had a wonderful week! Last class, we explored the Parenting Challenge of Education expectations with Vivekji.
Episode Notes
๐Recap (April 8, 2024)
๐ Self-care reflects care for others.ย
Here is a recap of what was shared:
- Reviewing Managing Emotions -ย
- ๐ญ Undirected thoughts cause stress, while directed thinking promotes calmness.โ๏ธย
- ๐ Manage emotions to avoid becoming moody.
- ๐ Navigate generational differences with PLEAD: Pray, Lead, Engage, Accept, and Depart if needed to avoid toxic relationships.
- Education Expectations -ย
- ๐ฟ Ancient Wisdom -ย
- ๐๏ธ In Srimad Bhagavatam, Sri Krishna (who is Yogeshwara - Master of Yogas) learns self-love and joy at Rishi Sandeepanyโs Gurukula. He embodies joy, setting a precedent for us.
- ย ๐ In the Bhagavad Gita, Sri Krishna says - "Sattva Sanjayate Jnanam" - from quietude arises knowledge.
- ๐ ย Education fosters quietness (sattva); everything else is mere information.
- For us as caregivers:ย
- ๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ Prioritize purpose, faith, and joy actively. Distinguish between engaging with fundamentals and being busy with mere information.ย
- ๐ Put parameters on the functional to balance between the fundamental and functional.ย
- For those we care:
- ๐ถ Clarify if you prioritize nurturing goodness or intelligence in your child. Emphasize values and morals for long-term development.ย
- ๐ Teach children to fulfill responsibilities before recreation without negotiation to avoid compromise.